In the beginning
About seven years ago,
I wrote a column about the difference between a woman who is not beautiful but also a woman who can attract people and a woman who is not beautiful but attractive.
Today I was looking back at my articles I wrote a long ago.
And I noticed.
No matter what the time change it is in the world the common points that attractive women feel to everyone are the same.
Seven years ago was not so long ago,
Still, the times were changing little by little.
Seven years ago when I wrote this column, how many people knew the words “IOT”, “Instagram”, “Youtuber” etc?
Were you able to imagine that the number of young people dreaming of becoming billionaires on Youtuber is increasing?
Even though the times have changed, I have stated here that “chosen girls are common” in the column I wrote.
I have ran a model and promotion girl office for 22 years and I have seen tens of thousands of women.
“Even if you are not a beautiful woman, you will pass an audition every time, and you may have a high repeat rate and popularity. On the other hand, there are women who are exceptionally prominent but have no audition pass rate and repeat.
Women who are attractive and want to choose everyone are full of love and private.
And those women have something in common. It’s not anything special or difficult, and it depends on a little bit of everyday effort. Anyone can do it.
Women who are not so beautiful but have in things in common with attractive women.
That’s five. Please try it for reference!
1. Facing forward
People who are positive thinking, even if they are depressed, have a short time of depression and feel that they can quickly switch back and use important time of life meaningfully. People who work hard with positive feelings look bright and are attractive to everyone.
When everyone lives, there are good and bad things. Life is a repetition of that. Even very positive people can fall. Even myself as well. No matter how positive you think, people can say bad things, fail at work, get hurt and get depressed.
Everyone gets depressed. There is no human being who is hasn’t been depressed. But it is better to have less time to fall. In order to be good at switching feelings, let’s meet with a friend who can say the truth and control something you like without being withdrawn.
2. Cherish the surroundings
In order to be a chosen and attractive woman, how do you always take care of the other party and the surroundings? Let’s be a person who can take care of things while taking care of oneself. On the contrary, those who can not take care of themselves can not take care of others. There is no way I can cherish people more than myself!
And i don’t think that some of you are going to get it.. Also, I do not think about gain or loss or who won and who loss and so on. “its not always all about you.” We have to look at the big picture for a better understanding
By always thinking about the other person, thinking about doing something for other person, and acting, you will be a person who is naturally chosen as well.
To cherish yourself, first approve yourself and become fond of yourself.
I would like to be a woman who usually smiles around. That’s why you don’t have to laugh. There are times when we want to cry, and sometimes we do not want to meet people. However, in daily life, there are occasions where you see your face several times a day.
It is really important for women to look at their smiles. When I have a sad face or a tired face in the mirror, I have such a face around without knowing it.
Get up in the morning, wash your face, go to the bathroom in the office, be sure to check your face and ask yourself. A woman smile makes the world go around. Whatever it is, daily practice and accumulation are important.
４. Use the right words
The wording makes a big difference in a woman’s impression with a little care. For example, if you eat something delicious and a woman says “UMAI!” If you can, if you say “OISHII” there is a product like a woman.
Not only men, but also adult women and elegant women check this kind of gestures and words in detail. Make sure that you always take care of things that cause daily speech or behavior.
５. Speak bright and clear if you can
You may think it is a voice, but the voice quality and tone greatly affect the impression you give to the other party. A bright, cheerful and powerful voice makes the person attractive and attracts attention.
When speaking, be conscious and bright, loud, and speak clearly. It is not good to speak aloud and have a weak voice, or extend the word endings and talking sloppy.
In addition, it is important how to talk to people.I think moderate speaking is best. People who speak fast are hard to understand and give impatient impressions and negative vibes. A person who speaks too slow may give the same.
Make sure that you have expressive power in the words of the story, and that you are not bored or forget to talk while grasping the other person’s feelings.
Everything is not difficult at all.
we always face our feelings and have the consciousness to cherish the surroundings without discrimination of all age and sex. Such a women who is the most beautiful in the world. ccent